Lessons from life

Dear life 

I have been spectator of each and every aspect of my days passing since 30 years 
lots of things i have learned lots of things i failed and understood many misconceptions have been cleared and lots of things made me more real and learned .......

the story doesnt end here i have seen soo many things of emergency in life and also i have faced situations where i was my best version, may it be love i grew may it be bonding with a friend i was thankful actually i did what all it takes to be a better human being..... life i am blessed to learn from all the incident which lord gave me and also i forget many so may be such situation would keep coming unless i make it a habit to learn from it ..... yes i will understand and surely i will be glad to see myself in some better place hope to see some better side of life now and be more productive for myself and my life ....

as this life is of victors I have made myself strong enough to deal with my circumstances and events some things have been inspiring and many of my role models too like michelle; oprah; ellen ; and soo many more hopefully soon i will excel in my goals and make mom proud 


thanks  a lot for teaching me soo much at the age of 30 

Love the way you are designed

The human life is although one of the biggest population. The unique thing is all are designed with an amazing recognizable difference. So one should know the value of their special traits in persona. Must respect and enhance their raw version to a finished product.

Really it's much needed to understand the core quality and ability of being ur best version. Each incident happening to one individual their way of dealing with it is super unique. I vote for being lesser diplomatic in relationship more emotional of it's ur persona but be happy in your own company never seek anyone to be ur power rather you become power for others please celebrate your own personality ..........

Desire with some purpose

Its very simple once we attach our desires to some purpose. Its likr giving the boat a direction to move. Always have the ability to justify yourself why you want anything. And it should be your own reply. And must stick to the goal and make it happen. Nothing can stop a willing heart. So just go with the flow but start your journey with some purpose. Never expect things to reach you without any desire or goal. Always have to attach your goal to some rewards like i want to become IAS for making my life much more meaningfully used for society. I want to add value to work of nation building. Finally meet few people who are passively making my journey possible....

Live to love and rest is all just a formality

Yes heard it right. One should love himself or herself as thats much more essential in life. Constant push of achieveing is really necessary but with a good desire of not becoming plastic in this race. When i see an old lady begging i empathise and i see many just cross her like dead human i know we can't do much but if one of us does one good act of love daily it can change many lives for sure......

Hard Work Beats Talent when talent doesn't work hard..................

In the world full of perfections as just an image or may be an inborn talent. Its quiet obvious that when the sharpest of axe is kept unused it gets rusted and becomes of no use sooner, or may be it shall need more of rigorous hard polishing and hurts and hard work to get into its original perfection. 

Similarly it goes with humans. As the aren't into a concept of sharpening their skills on a daily basis. The talent may rust in no time and it shall only harm them. May they have been as intelligent in their initial stages of life but due to their less proactive nature all goes in vain. There rises an ordinary student who is soo scared even to talk to people and to wish to join them for some small debate or discussion. But he keeps walking and struggling through life and gradually leaves behind all odds of his life and rises like a star. These names can be Sunder Pichai, oprah winfrey, sushmita sen, or lot many more.

Needless to say that we need to be really persistent committed and loyal towards our goals and skills honing process. As only that's the way to kill all the misconceptions of life and move ahead to rise like a star. 

So keep shining, stay persistent and stay loyal towards your gradual improvisation as a human being. 

lots of love ❤

Love and goals

All forces can lead you to success provided they are applied from right direction. Like all scare me to death saying love or relationships are such a burden to carry during your intense period of career. Well, i dont agree to it as i said earlier, all the energy or pressure can work as a catalyst if we apply from right direction.
So if ever saw one video on YouTube saying" last words of steve jobs". You may find his confessions. It just shakes my soul.
The way he translates his achievements into mere paper and materialistic progress is really awakening. He said" its all soo temporary to only aim at one dimensional progress of career". Also he mentions the worst and most expensive bed is the hospital bed.
Well i admire his spirits to be soo enlightened. Even on his death bed, where he could spend his last left days mourning about being soo much cursed to have cancer to kill him. He left us with soo many points to analyse and work upon which he couldn't. Not because he was not capable but bacause life didnt give him another chance.
As when lord has made us human beings with emotions its quiet biological to have emotions to express our amazing desires and heartfelt feelings.

Like you can use the fire to cook rice and to burn rice field. Same goes with love you may either perish in this feeling or you may use its intense energy to make you a more better person than you are now. Its said "everyone you meet has some talent, dont let them go unless you learn that from them" .
Well coming back to love . What i am trying to say is that use your love and feelings as a medium to create synergy with your beloved. Aim high, respect the space between each other, try to infuse goodness into each other. Love without any expectation as its best form of love.